One of my girls came home from school the other day with a black eye. It was gut wrenching to see the tears flowing down her face as she told me the story of how she got it.
Bullying is real, guys. It really happens. I guess you never think it’ll happen to your kids, and then it does, and it’s absolutely heartbreaking. You especially don’t think it’ll happen to your girls. Boys are aggressive and it’s not hard to imagine them getting violent. Girls are supposed to be ladies. They’re supposed to be polite. Sugar and spice and everything nice, you know?
My daughter was beat up by another girl at school, and I didn’t even know what to say or do when she told me it happened. As a mama bear, I wanted to go and find the girl who hit her and give her a piece of my mind, and fist. But then you don’t want to teach your children to retaliate with violence. You want to teach them to turn the other cheek, as hard as it can be.
I’ve decided that I don’t ever want that to happen to either of my girls again, and since this episode, we’ve been looking a lot at our options for homeschooling.
But this incident isn’t the only reason why. I guess it was just the match that lit the fire under my butt and got me to start seriously considering doing what we had been thinking about for a long time now.
Homeschooling has been on the table for years. My husband has always been a “buck the system” type of guy. He never wanted our children to be indoctrinated by the state. But, life gets busy, mom’s gotta go back to work, dad has to work too, and your options are limited. That’s pretty much what happened after we had the twins.
Now that I’m a work-at-home mom though, our options have opened up quite a bit. My girls are older and self-disciplined enough to complete their curriculum without much babysitting. And we’ve been looking into Ron Paul’s homeschool curriculum, which encourages independent learning. So while I’m working at home, they can learn from home at the same time. We’ll get to hang out together, they’ll be safer from bullies, and my husband will be happier knowing they’re not being indoctrinated by our flawed governmentally-funded school system. (Not to mention, we happen to live in a county that has one of the poorest school systems in the entire country.)
If you’re a mom, you should definitely check out the Ron Paul curriculum when you get a chance, especially if you’re considering homeschooling your kids and want them to grow up learning about freedom!