Why We’re Considering Homeschooling

One of my girls came home from school the other day with a black eye. It was gut wrenching to see the tears flowing down her face as she told me the story of how she got it.

Bullying is real, guys. It really happens. I guess you never think it’ll happen to your kids, and then it does, and it’s absolutely heartbreaking. You especially don’t think it’ll happen to your girls. Boys are aggressive and it’s not hard to imagine them getting violent. Girls are supposed to be ladies. They’re supposed to be polite. Sugar and spice and everything nice, you know?

My daughter was beat up by another girl at school, and I didn’t even know what to say or do when she told me it happened. As a mama bear, I wanted to go and find the girl who hit her and give her a piece of my mind, and fist. But then you don’t want to teach your children to retaliate with violence. You want to teach them to turn the other cheek, as hard as it can be.

I’ve decided that I don’t ever want that to happen to either of my girls again, and since this episode, we’ve been looking a lot at our options for homeschooling.

But this incident isn’t the only reason why. I guess it was just the match that lit the fire under my butt and got me to start seriously considering doing what we had been thinking about for a long time now.

Homeschooling has been on the table for years. My husband has always been a “buck the system” type of guy. He never wanted our children to be indoctrinated by the state. But, life gets busy, mom’s gotta go back to work, dad has to work too, and your options are limited. That’s pretty much what happened after we had the twins.

Now that I’m a work-at-home mom though, our options have opened up quite a bit. My girls are older and self-disciplined enough to complete their curriculum without much babysitting. And we’ve been looking into Ron Paul’s homeschool curriculum, which encourages independent learning. So while I’m working at home, they can learn from home at the same time. We’ll get to hang out together, they’ll be safer from bullies, and my husband will be happier knowing they’re not being indoctrinated by our flawed governmentally-funded school system. (Not to mention, we happen to live in a county that has one of the poorest school systems in the entire country.)

If you’re a mom, you should definitely check out the Ron Paul curriculum when you get a chance, especially if you’re considering homeschooling your kids and want them to grow up learning about freedom!

So what’s the meaning of “Bite the Bed Bugs”?

Since I launched this site yesterday, I’ve had several people ask me “what does ‘bite the bed bugs’ mean, anyway?” I’m glad this question has come up.

As you may recall from my about page and first post, I’m a wife and a mother, above all else. I’m proud to be the mom of 2 beautiful young ladies (twins!) and have spent the last decade raising them in a good home. We have a bedtime routine that started when they were newborns and has stuck ever since (which makes me really happy and which I’ll cherish for as long as I possibly can!) That routine consists of the following:

Step 1: Eat dessert (usually something healthy like a fruit cup). I know what you’re thinking: “you mean to tell me you give your kids sugar before bedtime?!” And to that I say, “YEP!” and I’m not afraid to do so. The whole “sugar-keeps-your-kids-awake” thing is just a myth anyway. When they have full bellies and their sweet tooth is satisfied, they go to bed happy, rest easier and sleep longer. That’s one of my parenting secrets and tips… you’re welcome.

Step 2: Brush teeth. A much needed step after the one above.

Step 3: Put on PJ’s. Hey, they gotta sleep comfortably, right?

Step 4: Read Scripture. I am proud to be a Christian mother, and my kids and I read a chapter of the Bible every single night before bed.

Step 5: Pray. This often comes before Step 4 as well. 🙂

Step 6: The tuck-in. Probably my favorite part of the whole night. I always say, “good night; sleep tight; don’t let the bed bugs bite” (a saying that my mom always said to me when I was a youngin’). After which, they try to weasel their way into staying up longer by asking questions like “Ma, what are bed bugs anyway? Will they really bite me? Does it hurt?”

My answer: not if you bite them first!

What do I mean by that? Well, I think most people would agree that bed bugs are irritating creatures. If you’ve never had a bed bug encounter, I hope you never do. I stayed in a hotel once and came home with what looked like a horrible rash all over my ankles and legs. I didn’t even know what it was at first. It got so bad I had to go to the doctor and get it checked out. Doc informed me that I had been bitten by bed bugs, and that the infestation may have likely spread to my own home as well. Needless to say, our house got a very deep cleaning, and it was no fun.

(You can learn more about symptoms of bed bug bites on WebMD, and I suggest doing so in case it ever happens to you. That way you’ll know what to look for. Also, the picture at the top of that page is pretty nasty… consider yourself warned.)

After going through that, I started relating all less-than-favorable circumstances in life to having a bed bugs episode. Some people say “when life hands you lemons, make lemonade.” I say, “don’t let life hand you lemons in the first place!” Or, “when life hands you bed bugs, bite them before they bite you!” In other words, don’t let unfavorable life circumstances happen. How do you do that? Simple: change your mindset so that even negative things are considered positive. Don’t give negativity a chance to keep you from smiling, even for one second! Keep a positive attitude and even the worst times in life won’t seem so bad. Those lemons will taste like sugar in your mouth! They’ll be so sweet, maybe your kids will be happy to eat them for dessert before bed. 😉

Which brings me back to that routine I was talking about…

Step 7: Goodnight kisses & lights out.